"Women are verbal creatures and our love of words extends to the bedroom".
1. Pay attention to more than just her nipples.
Then use your hand to cup and lift the underside of her breast, and lick around her nipple before covering it entirely with your mouth and sucking gently.
2. Gently pull her hair.
This works especially well when you're having intense, passionate sex, because grabbing her anywhere, especially somewhere sensitive, adds to the feeling that she's being ravished.
3. Nibble on her neck.
Start out by using your tongue to lick from her ear down to where her neck and shoulders meet. Then blow along the trail you just left. The warmth of your tongue coupled with the coolness of your breath will shoot tingles all over her body. After that, get a little more aggressive, and lightly nip the bottom of her neck.
Try sucking on her neck too, but for just a second and not hard enough to leave a mark.
4. Talk dirty to her.
Women are verbal creatures and our love of words extends to the bedroom. Unfortunately, most of what you may have heard guys say in porn is all wrong. Ask "Who's your daddy?" and you just might get a slap across the face. What your partner wants to hear are phrases that let her know how turned on you are, how much you love her body, and how good you want to make her feel.
And even more important than what you say is the way you say it when she can hear the burning lust in your voice, her thighs pretty much catch on fire.
5. Bring her to climax with oral.
A luxurious oral-sex session allows her to kick back and enjoy being spoiled. But different techniques may feel more or less pleasurable to her on different days. To figure out what's going to work best for her each time, be sure to use a variety of moves.
Try licking softly, sucking, and using a firm, pointed tongue and then a wide, soft one, and take note of which she responds to the most enthusiastically. When you sense that she's about to orgasm her body will tense up and she'll start breathing more quickly go back to the move that elicited the biggest moans, and continue doing it until she climaxes.
6. Touch her hot spot mid-action.
Most women can't orgasm during intercourse without clitoral stimulation, which is probably why so many want more of it! Whenever your hand can reach her clitoris (girl-on-top and spooning from behind are two great positions for access), you should rub her hot spot.
Your touches should be slow and soft in the beginning, progressing to harder and quicker. When it comes to technique, every woman is different, so you have to experiment: Try one finger pressed directly on her clitoris, three fingers over the entire area, or the heel of your hand on her pubic mound her moans will tell you when you have it right.
7. Kiss her during sex. If you're like most guys, once intercourse starts, you probably stop kissing her. That's a bad move, since kissing makes sex feel more intimate for her, which is crucial to female pleasure. Pick a position that allows you to be face-to-face, like missionary, or have her sit on your lap, then mix up your smooches so they mirror the mood of the sex you're having.
If you're going at it like gangbusters, pull her in for a deep, tongue-filled kiss try sucking on her bottom lip and pressing your lips firmly against hers. When things are slow and romantic, go with a more sensual kiss.
8. Handle her body with strength and confidence.
Know your woman’s body and spike her arousal level. When in missionary position, take her wrists and hold them above her head, pinned to the mattress.
When she's on top, hold her hips and push/pull them back and forth, so her clitoris grinds against your pubic bone. And when you want to change positions, grab her and put her where you want her.
By Dormaa Yeboah