Marriage tips 4 ways to tell your parents you’ve found the one

Do not give up! Convince them till don't give in, but don't force them into it.

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So after kissing many frogs and finally finding your prince charming, it's time to get the big guns out and inform your parents about the same.

However, if you already are having various dream scenarios going on in your head every single nano second then wait, take a step back and think through as you don't want to blow up this golden opportunity.

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So, if you still haven't thought of how are going to break the news then here are some tips and safe ways of breaking 'the' news to your folks.

1. Don't be a rebel! The first and foremost point to remember is that no matter what, they are your parents and want to see you happy. So calm down, relax and start talking to them about the good qualities that attracts you to your future MR./Miss Right.

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Make sure that you have created a firm foundation and have planted some good seeds about your significant other. And when it's done tell them about how you would love them to meet him/her. Remember you aren't 17-year-old who is all rebellious and making everyone around miserable.

2. Do not give up! Convince them till don't give in, but don't force them into it. You have to really patient to make them understand and see what a wonderful human being is your partner and why have you fallen for them.

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Remember if you are sure he/she is worth fighting for, then go ahead and make sure that your parents are convinced and not forcefully convinced. After all, no matter how big or small the wedding its incomplete without your parents and their blessings.

3. Stay cool. It's a given that you are going to be all worked up and nervous and hell, even a bit rebellious to make sure that your parents like your choice. But that ain't going to help you. Stay cool and calmly answer all the questions that your parents would throw on you.

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They would be having series of doubts that needs to clear before they give a go-ahead sign. Make sure you clear their doubts with utmost cool and calm. This gesture will work in your favour.

4. Do not copy someone else's ideas. Not only messing up things will be higher but you might just ruin up your chances like forever.

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However, to get inspired isn't a bad idea at all, at the end it should all boil down to how safe and smart you play the game, making sure you are the winner.

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