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5 Reasons why you should never get back with your ex

'If at first you don’t succeed, don't try again', that is the basic rule when it comes to thinking about getting back to your ex.

Whether you were close friends that didn’t work romantically, had a passionate relationship that you haven’t found with anyone else, or just want to stop missing them, there are so many reasons that going back to an old flame can seem like a great idea.

But that Déjà vu isn’t always a good thing when it comes to exes, it actually could be doom. pulse.com.gh brings to you reasons why you shouldn't go back to your ex.

1.Shatteredtrust

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Trust is the bed rock of everrelationship. It’s difficult to construct and even more difficult to put back together once the trust has been shattered.

Trust me, you wouldn't  like to be in a relationship where trust doe not exist and you’re never 100 percent sure that your partner won’t turn and run from you. There is also some sought of insecurity of a possible reoccurrence of some of your past love ordeals.

2.Your ex probably hasn’t changed

People can be amazing talkers especially when it comes to winning you to their side and your ex is a part. But saying something, and actually doing it, are two completely different things.

So if you’re hearing a lot of talk from your ex about how much they have changed, don't adhere. People don't change (completely).

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3.Your ex might have new baggage

This is a mostly the reason your ex might want to come back in your life. Your ex might have acquired a whole new set of baggage while you were apart.

He might be coming back only because he is depressed  from a job loss or something and needs closure, think twice about giving your ex another chance.

4.They'reToxic

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If you're the type of couple who constantly breaks up and gets back together, you should just take a step back and look at your relationship. It's clearly not working. You turn to wear off. You deserve happiness, they had their chance to make you happy and they screwed it up. Why let that toxicity back into your life?

5.Theyare replaceable

There are so many other people out there you might love. Although  the world may be getting smaller, but the amount of people and potential lovers is increasing.

In other words, there are more and more people for you to potentially fall in love with, and it’s getting easier and easier to meet them. Don’t settle for less.

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