6 reasons she turned you down

Portia Arthur

October 26, 2016 3:07 PM

Some men approach women because of how voluptuous they are. It is obvious in the way he looks at her, the jokes he makes or the body-oriented double entendres he sprinkles throughout the casual conversation.

Being rejected is something I don’t wish befalls anybody. It is perfectly natural to take it personally when a woman isn’t interested in you romantically, but sometimes it has little to do with you as an individual. Many reasons account for why women reject men but below is a snapshot of some.

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It is what it is. Some things are simple, yet hard to explain. Just as men look for certain traits in women before proposing, women also have certain specific types of men they want to be called their partners.

You just don’t fit the mould of the man she’s looking to get with. It quite possibly has little to do with appearance.

Some women always want their partners to appreciate their looks whenever they embark on a makeover. Others want their partners to look beyond their personal appearance and commend them for their hard work.

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It is hard to believe but there are some faithful women out there who are just prone to being attached to someone else even when they are dating. It could be an ex-boyfriend, a coworker crush or an eye candy she has a lascivious craving for.

Let’s face it: it is quite easy to spot a womaniser. He is overly dressed to attract women and endeavours to make small talk with any woman who’ll make eye contact with him. Serious women consider this appalling; a sharp turn off.

You are just like her ex

Coincidentally, you remind her of her ex-partner who treated her badly, crushed her world and treated her with disdain. She has seen your type before and is not ready for an encore.

To some women, their religion defines who they are. They want to date someone who shares the same religious beliefs because it is important to them. As the saying goes ‘similar minds think alike’.

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Portia Arthur