It doesn't feel normal to dedicate your life to one person - Wanlov claims

Ghanaian musician Wanlov the Kubolor has opined that he cannot dedicate his life to one person because it doesn't feel normal to him.

Wanlov the Kubolor

In a recent interview with GhanaWeb, Wanlov, who is known for his unorthodox views on life and relationships, stated that he getting married and dedicating himself to one person because it feels unnatural to him.

"I don't think I will dedicate my life to one person and be like me and you. I can't; it doesn't feel normal to me. It feels unnatural to me to dedicate my life to one person.

“It feels like the eggs and one-basket thing. Your emotions. Your feelings, your dreams. You can't store it all on one hard drive," he said.

According to Wanlov, the idea of putting all his emotions, feelings, and dreams into one person does not sit well with him.


He believes that it is risky to entrust everything to one person and that it goes against human nature to do so. "I have never been in a relationship before since I was a teenager that ever worried me. I have trained myself to not go deep," he added.

He stated that he has trained himself not to go deep into relationships, and he believes that is the reason why he has never experienced the pain of heartbreak.

"I can't imagine loving someone, and when I don't see them, I can't sleep, eat, or do other stuff. I can't imagine it," he said. Wanlov also expressed his inability to comprehend the intensity of love that requires one to be unable to function when away from their partner.

He believes that love should not be an all-consuming force but rather a natural part of life that complements other aspects of one's life.


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