While we get excited about the various ceremonies, clothes, jewellery, food and the fun part that weddings bring along, we forget to address the most important factors that determine the health of your marriage. Here are four things that no one will probably tell you before your wedding.
It'll not be a primrose path Although it might look that everything this simply perfect, from the fairytale wedding to the lavish honeymoon (that is if you have any), marriage is not a primrose path. It needs a lot of perseverance and tolerance, and is indeed full of challenges that you need to overcome with time.
You might feel like running away As you take your wedding vows and life will resemble the phrase 'happily ever after', you must understand that marriage is at times very complicated and full of hardships. In spite of being madly in love with your spouse, there will be times when you would just want to leave everything and run away to find peace. And to feel like this, if absolutely normal.
You are equally responsible Marriage message two people, it cannot success with a single person's effort. Of your really want your marriage to work, you must first learn to share responsibility. You must responsible about each other's happiness, feelings and wishes as well as dreams. In fact, feeling equal and giving equal treatment to each other is very important.
You must find your happiness If you take those typical Hollywood romcoms as reference, please don't. There's nothing such as a perfect marriage, and there's no one other than you who can make you happy. Hence, try to find your happiness in your marriage, you much not always get a bouquet of red roses or a sparkling ring on a survival day, but making sure you find happiness in small things is important.