I used to be a mental health and disability services business supervisor in Richmond, Virginia, but I've been on permanent disability since 2015 because of <a href="https://www.womenshealthmag.com/health/a29772224/selena-gomez-weight-gain-lupus/" id="64d0c16e-3c99-371d-aedd-68c5b1aac86e"> lupus </a> , an autoimmune disease I've dealt with for over 20 years.