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Foreplay is a basic requirement in the lovemaking process. It gratifies the act and set the right mood for the main event. Men who appreciate their women and want them to experience multiple orgasms never underestimates the importance of foreplay.
As the head of the household, take care of the bedroom and make her feel special each and everything with these moves.
- Ask what turns her on
Communication is very important if you want an active sex life. Before and after the lovemaking, ask for her preferences and fetishes, don’t just assume. Every woman stays by the man who always makes sure she are satisfied in bed.
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- The precoital massage
Love making ends with sex or penetration so why the rush? Make every minute spent together worth it. Start the process by massaging the length of her legs, from her upper thighs down to her ankles.
Next, focus on the feet, kneading her heels and all other points beneath. Then zero in on the toes and stretch them individually. Go all out and make her feel special by finishing it off by sucking on them.
- Focus on quality, not quantity
Be passionate about what you’re doing. Don’t rush through the foreplay to get to the sex. If you give her quality and sensual foreplay and she will never complain about whether you last for a minute or less.
- Expand your repertoire
Read, watch videos and attend seminars about lovemaking. Don’t be too comfortable with your few bedroom techniques. There are countless ways to spice things up and ignite the flame in your relationship. Give her the best of you every night and she will return the favour.
- Drive her wild with the figure-8 technique
Do you want her to feel on top of the world? Try the figure-8 tongue when you are servicing her down below.
Arouse her with gentle sucking until the little button swells, then carefully expose the area with your fingers.
Use the slippery underside of your tongue to circle it to the left and then to the right. With the rougher top side of the tongue, flick from right to left and then up and down. Finally, work up to figure 8s, alternating between your tongue's smooth underside and firmer tip. Constantly vary the degrees of pressure you use.
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- Don't overlook the labia
The labia, packed with nerve endings, are as important as the clit but most men ignore it. Hold each one between your thumb and forefinger and massage it, working your way up and down.
Or, using all of your fingers and your palm, “smoosh” the labia together, almost like you’re (gently!) kneading the dough.
- Explore her entire body
Love making is not just about penetration. Genitals are fun, some women love oral sex and it blows their minds. However, explore other parts like her neck, thighs, and breasts instead of going straight for her crotch. Try caressing, licking, or nibbling other erogenous zones, such as her neck, back, ears, belly, or wrists for multiple orgasms.
- Don't talk too much
Some words are just turn offs. Free feel to moan or shout out loud when she is rocking your world but be mindful of your choice of words. Don’t try to woo her over with your words, let your action speak for its self and keep the dirty words simple and personal.