There's lots of judgement and name-calling that comes along with having casual sex, especially against women. In other words, people like to judge other people for making personal choices. And that's not cool. As long as it's safe and equally consensual, you do what's best for you.
Specifically, having sex on the first date would make them lose interest in a woman or make them respect her less.
How soon is too soon — or is it okay to ask for it on the first night? We asked the dudes in our lives to dish on when they think it's appropriate to do the deed.
But what do you think if, after your first time hanging out, you get straight to the action?