Not one person goes into a marriage with a kind of manual or programmed life, everyone learns on the job.
Thereâs always a new thing to learn from your spouse as you both grow together.
However, we have aligned some facts every woman should know after getting married. No one is an island of knowledge so, we hope this post helps your relationships. Hereâs is a list of them below:
- Expect changes from your partner
If you donât change in your first year of marriage, you could change in your fourth. It could be as little as my attitude to food, your husbandâs reaction to money, and you have to constantly remind yourself of that. Expect a change at every stage of the marriage.
Donât be startled by a change in your partner but find a way to work it out. If they change for the better, thatâs fine and if itâs the opposite, you have to find a way to talk to them through it.
- You will lose some friends
After getting married, itâs always difficult for your close female friends to adjust. Even if youâre so accommodating, some people just feel like, now that youâre married, youâre no more in their class or level, then they move on to other friends. Be fine with it because seasons change.
Although, some people, when they get married, they start looking for married friends which is okay that doesnât mean that you should let go of all the friends you had before you got married.
- Your sex life will not be as wild as youâve imagined
Sex is meant to be enjoyed by both parties which is why you have to get married to a man youâre sexually attracted to. But it is not on a daily dose. You canât force your partner to have because you love to.
You should consider if he really wants to or he has the energy to. Sometimes, time might not permit especially when children get involved.
- You wonât always have your way
In marriage, there are two people involved even if you have become the day you were joined at the altar. Some women are very strong-opinionated. They are like, itâs either my way or no way if itâs not my way Iâm checking out. That canât work if you want a successful marriage.
If you always want to have your way in a marriage, maybe youâre better off single because it is two people with two different backgrounds with two different opinions and exposure.
- You wonât always spend time together
Some people live together, either in the same state, street or environment before getting married. Well, itâs not going to be like that forever. At some point, you will have to change the location for different reasons.
Your partner would be your companion but you have to learn that whenever they are around, you should take at the moment and enjoy it because they may be out of town tomorrow for a business, career or family functions.