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Well, you are single and not under house arrest, singlehood is also synonymous with being granted parole. So, if you haven’t had fun in a while, please step out and follow these fun tips. Who knows, maybe while having fun you may meet the love of your life. Here they are:
Follow the keep-fit clubs
There are lots of them, some walk up the Aburi mountain every Saturday, and some just jog around their communities chanting some ‘jama’ and just being happy. Wake up early, put on your keep-fit gear come out of your house and join them.
You will make friends; you will build a network. Your neighbours will know you and most importantly, they will know that you are single and try to hook you up.
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Step out
In the afternoon, instead of ordering food, go to the market, buy fresh vegetables, come home and cook. Another option is to go to the market and find new places where you can get clothes for cheap. No matter the reason, just go out. Nobody will find you in your room.
Your tv, phone and laptop are not the only avenues to meet people. Don’t lock up yourself; you're single but not a prisoner. Open that door, step out and enjoy your freedom of having no one to explain your actions to.
Take yourself on an evening date
In a scenario where you came back from the keep fit session, you were very tired, took your bath and fell asleep. You woke up and it was late. Still, that’s no excuse to stay indoors.
There are many things you can do like going for a live band performance at a bar near you. There are even some hotels that organise live music shows. Attend and enjoy good music, you might end up meeting people who enjoy good music as you do and you can take it from there.
Another option is to go watch a stage play at the national theatre. I promise you that you will enjoy it, just don’t pay attention to all those people who came along with their partners, else you’ll go home and cry. Focus on your own entertainment because a happy person attracts happy people.