A confused man is asking for advice after an unknown lady he met on Facebook and promised to marry her has taught him the lesson of his life.
The Nigerian man revealed on a Facebook page that he had had sex with the lady multiple times after making her think he was a serious man, and later broke her heart by telling her that he is not ready to marry.
When the heartbroken lady also retaliated by packing almost all his belonging and vanishing in his absence, he is now seeking advice.
Below is the letter he posted on the Facebook page to solicit opinions on what to do:
“Dear Facebook In-laws, abeg make Una judge this matter!??
Good Evening Bro! I met a girl on Facebook and promise her marriage out of play, i never meant it. We shared contact and began dating each other. She said that she was missing me and i said me too.
“She lives in Port Harcourt while I live in Abuja, she decided coming with her own transport fare. She arrived and we had sex and good time, she prepared food and also washed my clothes.
“She was somehow wife material, then she asked when am I coming to see her people for her hand in marriage. I said for your hand in marriage? For what? She said I thought you promised to marry me and that you said we will plan it when I come?
“I said I was only joking and not ready for marriage yet. I told her point black that am not going to marry her but let’s put everything in God’s hand and see how it goes. She became angry and finally agreed, we had sex again and again.
“I left for work only for me to come back home and discovered that she wasn’t home. She took all the money I have been saving this year about #240 thousand in the home wood safe, my home laptop and Samsung phone, all the wines and juice both the wines in the bar and in the fridge were also taking from her.
“Then I dialed her number not reachable, I searched for her bag but couldn’t see it.
“The one that angered me most was that she packed all the whole soup and stew she cooked for me both the meats, chicken that I stored inside refrigerator and left the pot without washing it.
“When her line finally went through, she picked it and told me that I can’t promise her marriage and later took it to for a play, after fucking me like harlot and made me to travel all the way from Port Harcourt to Abuja with my money and all I could get is to tell me that you are not marrying me! I asked her what about the things you took from my house, are you not going to return it back?
“She said that she is not returning anything and that she forgot to take the refrigerators and flat screen and other valuables along with her for toying with her emotions. She also said that she has sold the ones she took.
“I don’t know if I should expose her here on Facebook for doing this evil act to me, she is still active here and am still her friend on Facebook.
“She said I should do my worst, that i scammed her and deceived her in the name of marriage. How can Facebook promise be something you take seriously? Why would she take it seriously?
“Please post to your friends I want to hear from the audience and confirm if it is mature for me to expose her here. Hide my ID please.”
Do you have any advice for this gentleman?