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Sometimes when you really like a guy, you end up settling for whatever role heâll give you, including being his side chick.
Being a side chick means you are having an affair with a married man or someone who is in a committed relationship and is using you to cheat.
If you think he will eventually see the light and break up with his committed relationship, then it will not work. Start advising yourself.
This article features some reasons why you should never settle for the role of side chick.
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- Being a side chick will make you insecure
If this guy has actual girlfriends filtering in and out, youâll keep wondering what they have that you donât. Itâs bound to make anyone jealous. Remember, unless these other girls do something openly to make you feel bad about yourself, theyâre not the enemy. Theyâre just into this guyâs charm the same way you are. And if theyâre actively in a relationship with him and he keeps saying theyâll break up soon, just know heâs lying to you.
- This guy isnât going to do any of the boyfriend duties
When youâre officially with someone, you immediately have a date to events like your cousinâs wedding and the movies over the weekend. Without the title, this guy doesnât owe you anything. Even worse, you may feel weird asking someone else to go with you since youâll feel like youâre cheating.
- He doesnât love you the way he says he does
If he has dropped the "I love you" words, just know it was a method for you to agree to this arrangement. If the two of you were both madly in love with each other, heâd have no problem with properly ditching his other relationship and making it official.
- You deserve to be in a real relationship if you want to be
I donât care who this guy is. He could be rich and famous or the guy youâve been crushing on since middle school. If you want something he doesnât, youâre automatically incompatible. You might seem happy to be in his rotation now, but youâll never really be fulfilled.