The Nigerian lady who poured out her frustration in a post on Nairaland said: “Since I started dating, I’ve never met a man like this.”
According to her, she initially wanted to quit the relationship but he has been so caring and her love for him grows by the day.
She added that her confusion is fueled by the fact that the young man doesn’t have any concrete plan to leave the 1-room apartment.
Seeking advice on what to do, she wrote: “Since I started dating, I’ve never met a man like this. So caring, cute, neat, hygienic, generous but unfortunately, he doesn’t have much but the little he has, he’ll spend on you and make you feel like a queen.
He stays in one room face me I face u. Initially, when I found out, I said I was going to quit but the love he showed me was so overwhelming and I couldn’t quit. He said he’s making plans to move out and he won’t be renewing his rent in May. I agreed.
I fell in love with him too and became comfortable with his room but I made it clear that I will never pass the night at his place. You know how love can be blind, I found myself pass the night once and again and again then I asked him about his plans to move out, how much does he have at hand to rent a new place because I was secretly planning to support him with some money to add and he said he doesn’t have up to 30k. I was angry and so disappointed at him.
Right now, I’m thinking the whole thing over. I don’t think I can continue. Please advise me.”