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I slept with ex-boyfriend to retaliate my cheating husband, now I don’t know which of them gave me HIV - Confused lady

The Bible says vengeance belongs to the Lord himself, so sometimes when you arrogate the power to yourself to retaliate people who offended you, your actions may backfire and consume you.

Confused woman

A troubled woman who claims to have contracted HIV after having sex with her ex-boyfriend to pay back her cheating husband is now seeking advice from the public.

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According to the confused woman, she had sex with her ex-boyfriend who invited her for lunch, while her husband whom she had been bitter towards for cheating on her had also traveled for a long time.

She claimed that, out of stress, loneliness and bitterness, she ended up having what she referred to as “Stupid fling” with the ex-lover.

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In a letter addressed to Facebook relationship blogger, David Papa Bondze-Mbir, the lady said that she recently found out that she is HIV positive, and does not know if she contracted it from her cheating husband or the ex-boyfriend.

She wrote:

“Hello David Bondze,

“Good evening. I just read a post you shared from your website ‘Needle in the Hay’ and I am terrified. My husband also traveled for some time and I messed up. I gave in to an ex, who invited me over for lunch, and one thing led to another. It was just a stupid fling. I was stressed and lonely and hurt. My husband was having an affair and it had clouded my thinking and feelings.

“I recently found out I am HIV+ and I do not know whether or not I got it from my ex or husband. Neither of the men knows about my recent detection. What do I do, Dave?” – From a troubled wife.

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