But sometimes, itâs better to stay home than to force yourself into plans youâre not feeling up to. Here are three situations when you might want to think twice before going on that date.
Not in the mood
Firstly, if youâre just not feeling it, listen to that inner voice. Itâs okay to trust your gut if something feels off or youâre just not excited about the date.
Whether itâs nerves, a bad vibe from the person, or simply not being in the right headspace, itâs okay to say no. Dating should be fun, not something you dread.
Money matters
Next up, letâs talk about money. If youâre running low on funds, a date might add unnecessary stress. Itâs important to be honest with yourself and your date about what you can afford even if you're not the one paying the bill.
Suggesting a more affordable activity or even a cozy night in can be just as fun without the worry of overspending.
Anything can happen and in any case of emergency you need money to be able to be able to solve, so never go on a date with an empty wallet.
Feeling under the weather
Lastly, if youâre not feeling well, either physically or mentally, give yourself a break. Going on a date when youâre sick or just not in the right frame of mind wonât be enjoyable for either of you.
Itâs better to take the time you need to feel better rather than pushing through and not being able to enjoy the date.
In the end, dating is about enjoying someoneâs company and having a good time together. If youâre not in the mood, worried about money, or not feeling well, itâs perfectly fine to postpone and wait for a time when you can fully enjoy the experience.
After all, the best dates happen when both people are excited to be together and at their best.