How to get the girl who is out of your league

The more you get to know her, the more she'll you.

Pulse woman

Be confident in who you are

You must be happy and accept who you are even before you consider dating.

You must know your worth, be ready to be in a relationship and face the issues that come with it.

You have to know what you want and need both in life and a relationship before you approach any woman. What's more, if you're unhappy with who you are, that insecurity with your identity can be the root of your dating insecurities and why you don't feel worthy of an incredible girl.

Don't put her on a pedestal

Why do you want to be with her? Get to the root of why you want to be with her. You can be attracted to her because of her educational level, job, social status, family background among others. But are these factors influencing you? Are these factors enough reasons to be with someone?

Take her off the pedestal and evaluate whether or not you can really see a relationship with her.

Make the first move

Timing is always important. Find the right time, the right mood and approach her. Do some background checks on her to figure out her interests. Sometimes it pays to be in the friend zone.

Getting to know her before asking her out could make you seem more attractive this will help you to start the conversation on the right note and keep the conversation going. This will give you a better chance of getting her contacts for a proper first date.

Show her a good time

Define your relationship on your first date. Don’t let her push you the friend's zone. However, don’t rush things but do things small gestures that will make her fall madly in love with you. Do things that will connect you on a physical level.

If you make it to a second and third date, kiss her. Hold her hand, introduce her to your friends and start opening up to her. Make your moves genuine and she will give you the green light.

Ask for what you want

Be real and genuine and just put yourself out there.In life and with women, always ask for what you want, ask for it nicely and be prepared to hear no. If you don’t ask, you’ll never know and be left wondering.


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