There are times when you may feel men are repellent and they would want to be alone. But it could be that youâre doing something to scare off potential love interests, which means youâre ruining your own chance at a healthy relationship.
At times, women unknowingly portray some awkward attitude that makes the opposite sex label them as insecure, and in most cases, men find it hard dealing with such character.
But if you are pulling any these moves, is it any wonder youâre still single?
- Being too available
You should have your own life, donât just cling on to your boyfriendâs. Itâs important to have time apart, and there should be other stuff going on in your life than just your relationship. So have a girlâs night, keep up with your hobbies, and donât let your relationship affect your career.
- Being needy
Donât expect a guy to give up every priority he had before you. Itâs not just about time, itâs also about the love and attention you require. Love him for who he is and not because he pays you endless compliments.
- Acting like his mother
A man doesnât need another woman to baby him. He gets enough of that from his mom. You donât need to tell him what to do or how to do it, youâre partners and should treat each other as such.
- Moving too fast
Donât get too comfortable too quickly, slow it down. Building a relationship takes time. Date for a little while and when youâre ready, then commit. Once youâre exclusive, donât worry about getting to the next step. Enjoy each part while it lasts so you can both enjoy a natural transition.
- Letting jealousy get the best of you
Itâs insecurity, and itâs not attractive. Men want confident women that donât need a man to make them feel better about themselves. Learn to trust your boyfriend or jealousy might just be the thing to drive him away.