Pulse.com.gh logo

Marriage tips 4 ways to tell your parents you’ve found the one

Do not give up! Convince them till don't give in, but don't force them into it.

  • Published:
African couple play

African couple

So after kissing many frogs and finally finding your prince charming, it's time to get the big guns out and inform your parents about the same.

However, if you already are having various dream scenarios going on in your head every single nano second then wait, take a step back and think through as you don't want to blow up this golden opportunity.

Read more: 7 ways to build stronger relationships

So, if you still haven't thought of how are going to break the news then here are some tips and safe ways of breaking 'the' news to your folks.

1. Don't be a rebel! The first and foremost point to remember is that no matter what, they are your parents and want to see you happy. So calm down, relax and start talking to them about the good qualities that attracts you to your future MR./Miss Right.

Read more: 10 attractive personality traits every lady should have

Make sure that you have created a firm foundation and have planted some good seeds about your significant other. And when it's done tell them about how you would love them to meet him/her. Remember you aren't 17-year-old who is all rebellious and making everyone around miserable.

2. Do not give up! Convince them till don't give in, but don't force them into it. You have to really patient to make them understand and see what a wonderful human being is your partner and why have you fallen for them.

Read more: 6 things you should not do when in a new relationship

Remember if you are sure he/she is worth fighting for, then go ahead and make sure that your parents are convinced and not forcefully convinced. After all, no matter how big or small the wedding its incomplete without your parents and their blessings.

3. Stay cool. It's a given that you are going to be all worked up and nervous and hell, even a bit rebellious to make sure that your parents like your choice. But that ain't going to help you. Stay cool and calmly answer all the questions that your parents would throw on you.

Read more:4 key elements of a successful marriage

They would be having series of doubts that needs to clear before they give a go-ahead sign. Make sure you clear their doubts with utmost cool and calm. This gesture will work in your favour.

4. Do not copy someone else's ideas. Not only messing up things will be higher but you might just ruin up your chances like forever.

Read more: 3 most common intimacy problems in marriage

However, to get inspired isn't a bad idea at all, at the end it should all boil down to how safe and smart you play the game, making sure you are the winner.

Do you ever witness news or have a story that should be featured on Pulse Ghana?
Submit your stories, pictures and videos to us now via WhatsApp: +233507713497, Social Media @pulseghana: #PulseEyewitness & DM or Email: eyewitness@pulse.com.gh.

Recommended Articles

Recommended Videos

Top Articles

1 Celebrity Wedding Check out photos from Ghanaian actor, Eddie Nartey's...bullet
2 He Can't Wait Man peeps at his bathing fiancée in unusual pre-wedding...bullet
3 Revealed Do you know kissing is good for the body? Find out whybullet
4 Relationship Tips 5 signs your partner has lost interest in youbullet
5 Relationship tips 6 clear signs you are in love with the wrong...bullet
6 Relationship Tips 5 signs he feels guilty for hurting youbullet
7 Relationship Tips 20 romantic text messages you can melt...bullet
8 Introverts 8 things you should never say to an introvertbullet
9 Relationship Talk With Bukky How to successfully date a...bullet
10 Relationships Are you with a stingy boyfriend? Here...bullet

Top Videos

1 Give thanks to God when your wives cheat on you – Counselor Lutterodtbullet
2 Relationship Tips 6 Women Reveal The ONE Thing That Instantly Turns...bullet
3 Sex And Relationship How to Control Your Urge to Have Sex?bullet
4 Relationship 10 Signs your man is a keeperbullet
5 Pulse List 5 do's and don'ts for really good sexbullet
6 Relationship Tips 6 Women Reveal The ONE Thing That Instantly...bullet
7 Relationship Tips 7 Strong Signs that you are falling in lovebullet
8 Relationship 7 signs that shows that she is cheating on youbullet
9 Relationship Tips How to propose to a Christian girlbullet
10 Sex Tips 5 Healthy Reasons You Should Have Sexbullet

Relationships & Weddings