Signs that show it’s time to get out of your relationship

There are signs that enough is enough and you need to pay attention to these signs. 

Here are some of the signs that you have come to a junction in your life, and that it is time to make a change for the better.

Its tie to let go if you have turned into a shadow of yourself. Your self-esteem is very important to your mental health so please don’t allow anyone to toy with your mind. If the relationship is emotionally abusive or one that has taken over your confidence then it’s it to change your situation. 

People make mistakes and that’s forgivable. But if you are constantly being disrespected in your relationship, its time you probably had the talk. Respect is very important in any relationship, it paves way for trust and security. You cannot trust someone who continuously disrespects you. 

It’s not all about you or the other person. A relationship is a two-way affair, perhaps it’s time to move on. Even with the differences in every relationship, there is enough room for both partners to grow and develop. 

If your relationship is all about the other person, please save your sanity and move on. 

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Your values are you and you become your values. If you are constantly in disagreement over what is important to you then you should give your relationship another thought. If your partner does not deem your choices as important to you then they would repetitively disrespect you – without even trying.  

When was the last time you were sincerely happy? No relationship should make you feel depressed. If you feel silenced, and that you are in a position where your opinion either does not matter or is not allowed to be expressed, you need to move forward.

If you are so unhappy that you cannot even remember the last time you were happy, you to make some changes. You deserve to be happy.