4 ways to act like your husband's mistress...years after marriage

Intimacy and romance tends to fizzle out when there is no spark from time to time. As a wife and mother, it could be tasking playing both roles at once.

But taking time out to be your husband's lover and bringing back that pre-marriage romance could be the best thing for you, your sexuality and your marriage.

You can enjoy a steamy sex life with your husband —the anticipation, the excitement, the intimacy—all wrapped up in the security of love and commitment. You can have everything the mistress or romance character has, and more.

Gaye Christmus of YourTango lists ways you can act like your husband's mistress: