Forget celebrity status and approach us; we need love – Sista Afia tells 'fearful' Ghanaian men

Ghanaian singer Sista Afia has opened up about the unspoken reasons many men shy away from romantic relationships with women in the spotlight, suggesting that fear and insecurity play a bigger role than disinterest.

Sharing her reflections, the musician explained that admiration for female celebrities is common, yet it rarely translates into action. In her view, the hesitation stems from the weight of expectations attached to dating someone whose life unfolds in public.

She described the demanding nature of a female artiste’s career, pointing to late-night studio work, constant travel, tours, and unpredictable schedules. Such a lifestyle, she noted, can be daunting for men who value structure and consistency. Being in love with a celebrity, she added, often means accepting that attention must be shared with a career, fans, and public obligations.

Sista Afia also drew attention to the relentless scrutiny that follows high-profile relationships, arguing that not everyone is emotionally prepared for such exposure.

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Another challenge she mentioned was the misconception surrounding wealth and fame. According to her, public recognition does not always translate into financial security, which can create pressure, particularly in cultures where men are traditionally expected to be providers.

Stripping away the glamour, the singer reminded the public that female celebrities are, above all, human. Like anyone else, they long for sincere affection, emotional safety, and commitment, rather than being placed on a pedestal or treated as rivals.

She encouraged men to look beyond celebrity status and approach relationships with honesty and emotional maturity instead of intimidation.

“We don’t need perfection. We need presence. We don’t need intimidation; we need courage. Don’t be scared of us,” she appealed.