My boyfriend makes me feel like a side chick

Dear Bukky,

I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for a year and six months but he never took me to his house or meet any of his friends or family members. He recently told me he wants to have a baby with me but I don't trust him.

We never went out as a couple and he never holds my hand when walking in a public space.  I have tried asking him why he doesn't hold my hand in public and he said he's not that romantic. I suspect he feels ashamed of me. Should I break things up with him or not?_________

Dear reader,

You need to realise that while PDA is great for some people, it is not for some others.

Having said that, I will add that your boyfriend’s case is surely curious. A curious one indeed. Asking to get you pregnant without meeting your family and friends or introducing you to his… it’s a move that should get your alarm bells ringing wildly. It doesn’t sound right.

If he does not make the necessary introductions, take you to his house and begins to to do as he should, I think you are right to be as suspicious as you are now. If he refuses to do as you say, you should feel free to let him go, too.

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