8 ways to move on after discovering your spouse cheated on you

It's really hard to face the fact that your spouse cheated on you, especially if they decide to stay with the one they had an affair with.

In reality, it's okay to feel all kinds of things initially but it should always be in moderation. The worst thing is letting your significant other's infidelity define you.

Huffington Post experts on the subject of infidelity share their best advice for letting go and starting over after an affair: